ahlia-sorrelxtaye:

A general thing that I hate needs to be said, but after today apparently has to be:

Just because I draw adult themed art or have characters with adult themes does not mean it is okay to approach me as a sexual object or about my characters as sexual objects.

Don’t open a conversation as a -stranger- talking about the kind of sexual fantasy you think would be ‘hot’ for my characters. It’s uncomfortable and invasive and inappropriate. I don’t know you, and even if I DO know you, respect that there are boundaries unless -explicitly- stated that such things are okay. The friends I joke with and share adult themed content with are those I have discussed specifically the boundaries of such to ensure that all involved parties are comfortable. Even -ask prompts- (which I haven’t done in a long time) are things that I have specifically consented to.

It does not make me want to RP with you, it does not make me want to be your friend or speak to you -at all- if you engage in unsolicited sexual behavior. Just don’t.

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